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Are you wrestling with your dream? Wonder why your dream seems so far away? Are you afraid to loosen your grip on your dream because you’ve invested time, effort, even money?
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Stepping away from your dream helps you gain clarity, makes a new direction possible, and even makes room for God to do things with your dream that you could never do while holding on.
I’ve just come out of a stepping away season. I’ve had dreams of writing a book, a few books in fact for years. And blogging kept me close to that dream. But for a time, I stopped writing and stepped into some other opportunities. In my case, I didn’t exactly decide I was stepping away from this dream of writing, but my yeses to a few other projects left me with little time and space for writing.
I didn’t really miss writing for a while. I was too busy to think about it much.
A few thoughts crossed my mind from time to time, “Maybe I’m not really a writer anymore.” “Maybe I don’t have anything to write about.” “Maybe my writing dream was for a season that’s over.”
I wasn’t thrilled about this.
I was a little sad. What about all those dreams that had to do with writing?
A little regretful. Maybe if I was more dedicated like some of my friends, I’d have a book by now.
A little puzzled. For so many years, I focused so much effort on communicating through writing…was that all for naught?
It’s like that quote from Khalil Gibran, “If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were.”
I’m applying my dream of writing to Gibran’s philosophy, “If you have a dream, but you find you’re not fulfilling it, then let it go for a season. If the dream returns, it was always yours. If not, perhaps it never was…or has already served its purpose.”
Space has opened up for me again. I have some time to think. And my thoughts go toward what I want to write about, which is the first step of writing. It’s the marinating phase – the writing that goes on in our heads before we put pen to paper or fingers to keyboard.
I’m preparing to write again. I’m gaining clarity about what I will write in this season. Shifting my writing direction to suit my current goals and season of life. God has taken away some concerns that are clearing a path to return to writing renewed, refreshed, and redirected.
I’m thinking about the words I will regret not writing.
This dream of writing that faded for a while has returned. And I’ve realized life will bring ebbs and flows of busyness, projects that take us away from our dreams. But if it’s really a dream that’s meant to be fulfilled, it will not go away forever. It will return and return again because it’s actually meant to be. It has a purpose in our lives and we’re the one assigned to fulfill it.
So if you’ve hit a dry spell, are too busy to pursue your dream right now, or have gotten off track and feel like you’ll never get back on, try not to worry.
Here are a few steps you can take until you find your way back to your dream and it finds its way back to you:
- Hold your dreams loosely with open hands.
- Practice peace in this season by consciously letting go.
- Trust that if this dream is really for you, you will return to it until it’s fulfilled.
- Know that God will make a way. He’s the author of our dreams.
Are you feeling far away from your dream? I’d love to hear about it and pray for you.
Shared by: Elise Daly Parker
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Marianne says
Thank you…. My dream I let slip away 2 years ago. I pray that God our Father will bring it back to me. I ask for your prayers .I hope for a whisper from God to know what to do
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edalyparker says
Oh Lord, please be with Marianne today. Please Lord allow her to feel your nearness, your love, your very presence. Help her to discern if there are any steps she should take toward her dream…or if she needs to continue to release it to you, trusting that you have the very best in mind for her, in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.
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Michele Morin says
Thanks for sharing your story of release and return. There have been a few dreams over the years that I’ve had a throttle-hold on, and am learning that open hands and serene trust in God and His motives and plans are a much better way of handling dreams.
Blessings to you in this new season!
(And just for the record, the grandmothering gig is just the best!)
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edalyparker says
Hi Michele! Oh yes, I love the grandmothering gig. We just had a birthday party for my beloved four-year-old granddaughter. What a joy! And yes, I can totally relate to the throttle-hold. I am the quintessential holder-oner. I really am learning too that as i release there is space for good things. And when I hold on, well that’s all I can carry. Here’s to receiving all God has for us and making room by releasing it all to Him!
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Joanne Viola (@JViola79) says
A wonderful reminder that God is the giver and keeper of our dreams. May God bless you in this new season!
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edalyparker says
Thank you Joanne! Yes God is the giver and keeper…so true. This Thanksgiving was very different in terms of having all my kids home, for example. But I’m learning that change can be joy-filled. And it does make room for new traditions. Blessings to you too!
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Alice Walters says
Dear Elyse, your post today really speaks to my heart. You are so right about dreams shifting, and the importance of holding them loosely. One of the things I’ve learned along the way is that it’s really not about us after all. It’s about Him, and His Kingdom. When I began to look at my dreams through that filter, things began to change. I frequently reflect back to what our college president said at graduation about doing what you have to do to make a living, but as soon as possible, make a way to do what you love. Prayers and blessings as you move closer to doing what you love!
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edalyparker says
Oh yes, Alice, amen to that. It’s funny, right now I am doing exactly what that college president said. I’m doing work that I have to do to make a living. And I’m very thankful for that work…in fact, I even love it. It’s not my dream come true, but as I mentioned, I have a renewed desire to write. And so I’m writing when I can and about the things I care about. It’s working!! And yes, keeping in mind the Kingdom perspective is a game-changer. “Lord what do you have for us? What dream have you planted in me to help and serve your people?”
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nylse says
The marinating phase where writing happens in our heads well before it hits the page. This is me. I marinate alot!
Thanks for sharing your story.
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edalyparker says
Nylse…I maintain that marinating is part of the writing process. A lot of stuff is written in my head before I get it out on to a page. Sometimes I write the thoughts down…or speak them in to my phone. Other times, I trust the Lord to bring them forward. Bless you and thanks for stopping by!
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Hopeful50 says
Dreams. I think I’m living mine. xo
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