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Letting Go of a Dream

September 11, 2017 By Laura Rath 30 Comments

I’ve always struggled with the book of Job. For years, I couldn’t get past the beginning where God gives Satan permission to test Job. I didn’t like that part, so that’s where I stopped reading. But, over the years, it seems God has led me to the book of Job on several occasions.

While I was thinking about God-given dreams recently, I read this verse:

So the Lord blessed Job in the second half of his life even more than in the beginning.
Job 42:12a NLT

I know I’ve read it before because I remember thinking, Yeah, but he lost so much before that! I got stuck in what happened to Job and couldn’t move forward. Much like we do in real life.

How often do we get stuck in the past, unable to move forward in the present?

How often do we get stuck in the past, unable to move forward in the present?

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It’s easy to do that with dreams that don’t materialize. Maybe it’s because real-life responsibilities and obligations keep us from pursuing our dreams. Or perhaps we’ve worked and worked, but still haven’t seen the dream come true. After a while, we decide it’s just not meant to be.

There’s a difference between giving up and letting it go. Giving up comes from disappointment and discouragement. It closes the door on the dream and can lead to resentment.

The decision to let go of a dream can also come from disappointment and discouragement, but it leaves the door open for God to work in ways we don’t expect and can’t imagine.

We may grieve the loss of a dream, and that’s an appropriate emotion. It’s also an important part of the healing process that allows us to move forward.

Job had plenty of reasons to grieve—he lost so much, but he never turned away from God. In fact, he reaffirmed his faith in Him.

Then Job replied to the Lord: “I know that you can do anything, and no one can stop you.
Job 42:1-2 NLT

We don’t know how long Job’s healing process was, but we know he walked through it and was blessed by God—probably more than Job ever imagined was possible.

I had only heard about you before, but now I have seen you with my own eyes.
Job 42:5 NLT

If you’ve had to let go of your dreams, for whatever reason, don’t count God out. Leave the door open for God to work in ways you don’t expect and can’t imagine. Even when we don’t know what we’re watching for, we can trust He’s there, and His work is worth waiting for.

We don’t know what to watch for, but trust God’s there & His work is worth waiting for.

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About Laura Rath

Laura Rath enjoys writing to encourage women in their walk with Christ. She shares stories of her own faith journey on her blog, Journey in Faith, and is a regular contributor for several Christian websites. Laura is a wife and mother and enjoys spending time with her family, reading, going deeply into God’s Word, and speaking at women's events. You can find her on her blog, as well as href="http://www.twitter.com/LauraJRath/">Twitter and Facebook

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  1. pdhemphillpdhemphill says

    September 11, 2017 at 6:22 am

    Try as I might, I can’t get my head around this book. I’ve read it through on several occasions. Most recently with first5. I’ve heard sermons, studied it in groups and on my own. It’s a hard read. My take away? At the end is hope. Eternal hope after the chaos of living.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:03 am

      Definitely hope!

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  2. AvatarAlice Walters says

    September 11, 2017 at 6:25 am

    Dear Laura, thank you for sharing the distinction between giving up and letting go. It can make all the difference between peace and disillusionment. Have a blessed day.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:05 am

      Yes! Letting go into God’s hands brings peace!

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  3. AvatarMichele Morin says

    September 11, 2017 at 8:07 am

    Job is a hard slog through discouragement, and I always come back to the fact that Job did not have the benefit of our behind the scenes perspective. And he had no idea that God would restore everything to him, and yet he came down, ultimately, on the side of trust. When I find myself banging on God’s door looking for answers, I remember Job, because he did not receive the answers he wanted (like Jesus in Gethsemane and Paul with this thorn in the flesh). Instead, God showed up at the door with the gift of Himself.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:08 am

      “God showed up at the door with the gift of Himself.” I love that!!

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  4. AvatarJoanne Viola (@JViola79) says

    September 11, 2017 at 8:50 am

    Laura, thank you for this reminder of the difference between giving up and letting it go. When we let go of the dreams and place it in His hands, God will bring it forth in His way and for His glory. Oh to trust Him with it all. Blessings!

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:09 am

      Amen!

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  5. Avatarnylseesahc says

    September 11, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    I’ve always loved that verse in Job. I actually find the book of Job to be encouraging. It grounds you. As humans we actually only want the good stuff – but that’s not realistic and that’s not what God has promised. Job went through and came out stronger; he wouldn’t have had his ending if he didn’t.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:11 am

      So true! What we have to walk through can make us stronger in the end.

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  6. Avatarmareedee2016 says

    September 11, 2017 at 12:48 pm

    I love what you said, “The decision to let go of a dream can also come from disappointment and discouragement, but it leaves the door open for God to work in ways we don’t expect and can’t imagine.”

    I have felt like Job many times and I seem to be able to muster through it with GOD. However, after reading your post I realize where I really struggle is letting go of the dream. Thank you for your post.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:14 am

      Thank you Maree Dee. It’s never easy, is it?!

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  7. AvatarBecky Hastings says

    September 11, 2017 at 4:03 pm

    I’ve struggled with Job, too! I actually avoided the story at all costs for fear that the loss would rub off on my life. Silly, but true.

    You are so right about this: “There’s a difference between giving up and letting it go.”

    Letting go may be hard but it can be an exhale in the most beautiful way.
    Thank you for sharing such beautiful truth.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:15 am

      “Letting go may be hard but it can be an exhale in the most beautiful way.” Yes. Yes. And yes!

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  8. Avatarhopeful50 says

    September 13, 2017 at 5:16 am

    Laura… There’s a difference between giving up and letting it go. Glad I came over and finished the post. I truly needed it today.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 13, 2017 at 9:16 am

      Thank you for reading Susan! God bless!

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  9. AvatarRobinality says

    September 13, 2017 at 11:04 am

    Thank you for sharing and articulating letting go verses giving up. I have a tendency to struggle with letting go because I feel that I am giving up. I appreciate your insight, your words are inspirational!

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:47 pm

      Thank you 🙂 God bless!

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  10. LesleyLesley says

    September 13, 2017 at 12:30 pm

    Like others, I love how you differentiate between giving up and letting go. When we hand our dreams over to God, he can do amazing things, even if it’s not in the way we expected.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:48 pm

      Amen! Thank you Lesley.

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  11. AvatarKaren says

    September 13, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    “There is a difference between giving up and letting go.” HUGE DIFFERENCE! One is about being defeated. The other is about overcoming. crucial to remember! thanks!

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:49 pm

      Yes! Great point – defeated vs overcoming!! Thanks Karen.

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  12. AvatarKarrilee Aggett (@KarrileeA) says

    September 13, 2017 at 3:54 pm

    So many conflicted emotions when it comes to Job! We don’t love it but you are right –we do get stuck on the loss, and not the double blessing in the end. One doesn’t negate the other… but it’s such a picture of how good our God is and how much He desires to bless us! So thankful we serve a God of restoration!

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:50 pm

      Me too Karrilee!

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  13. AvatarBetsy Cruz says

    September 14, 2017 at 8:51 am

    Thanks for the encouragement, Laura. His work IS worth waiting for. Well worth it, but oh we don’t like the wait, especially when we lose things we love.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:52 pm

      I hear you Betsy. Waiting is so hard, even when I know His way and timing are perfect.

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  14. mbethanymbethany says

    September 14, 2017 at 9:34 am

    Yes! Laura, my perspective on Job has changed so much as I’ve read and reread it over the years. Don’t ever count God out! Thank you for this!

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 17, 2017 at 10:54 pm

      Thanks for reading Bethany!

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  15. AvatarLureta says

    September 21, 2017 at 5:29 pm

    There have been times when I have been discouraged because I was not able to differentiate between giving up and letting go. Holding on to God’s promises and knowing his word is so essential in these times. Your post is enlightening and encouraging. I have watched my husband struggle with this same issue and I will share your post with him. Thank you.

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    • AvatarLaura Rath says

      September 21, 2017 at 10:10 pm

      Thank you Lureta! Your comment blessed me tonight!

      Reply

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